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Chapter I-9:  Patience, Truth, and How We Should Do the Talks

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The nature of long talks; different types of lies; how to listen to the talks; patience and asking questions; instructions to John about “repairing” the talks



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Contents outline and links by paragraph

Starting the work

How the idea of the talks has evolved from the friendship of John and Alhaji Ibrahim

Issues of mistakes and lies in talks about Dagbon

Resistance to talking about Dagbon and opposition to Alahji Ibrahim's work with John

Alhaji Ibrahim's knowledge as his heritage to be passed on with truth

Trust and learning

Separating a few types of lies that have benefit

The importance of seeking truth

How the team should work together

Conclusion



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Proverbs and Sayings

It is a child who has patience who eats the benefit of elderly people.

An old man doesn't bring out everything that is in his stomach.

You can't say all.

You say some and leave some in your stomach.

Blood is in the stomach, but when you are going to vomit, you vomit white.

If you farm groundnuts and you want somebody to be watching your groundnut farm, you should get a leper to be watching your farm.

If you farm your groundnuts and finish, you don't send a leper to shell the groundnuts.

You don't send a leper to shell groundnuts.

Is a white horse an old horse?

It is not someone who has stayed long on earth who is an old person.

A child who roams much is wiser than the father.

Something that is forbidden does not walk for you to see it; it is only waiting, and you won't see it unless you do it.

The one who burns his hair smells the scent of the hair.

If there is no fear, then what is darkness?

What you are holding, if it is small, you shouldn't look down upon it; you should hold it.

You will come to see the skin of a snake, and you will take it to be a snake, but it is just the skin of a snake and it is not the real snake.

Too much eye-opening can spoil a town.

You don't send a blind man to keep birds from your guinea corn farm.

Someone can be looking at a house but will not know what is inside the house.

If you befriend a monkey, nothing of yours will remain on top of a tree.

If you go to a learned person and you don't know anything, at least you will know the number of housepeople in your house.

If a person is sitting at one place and is caring for a child, he isn't the only person who cares for the child.

It is the one who takes up your work whom you call your child.

A learned person does not die.

Truth has no end.

When you get up, you should search for truth.

Truth lasts, because a truth man comes to stand in the place of a truth man.

Lies are like a dead thing.

Truth does not die.

Lies are like urine:  when you pull out your penis and you are urinating, at first it goes far, and when it is finishing, it finishes in front of you.

As for truth, the way it is:  how can somebody be sitting on the ground and fall down?

If a truth man tells lies, people will take it to be truth.

When people like you in a place, if you do something bad, they will say it's good.

When you are a person and you get up, you should search for truth.

Wisdom is more than what one person can hold; one person cannot hold all wisdom.  (Tolon-Naa Yakubu)

If a liar tells a truth person a lie, the truth person will take it to be true.

Only a bad person can know a bad person.

Truth gives birth.

It is someone who has patience who can hear the truth, and it is someone who has patience who will say the truth.

If you sow a bad thing, that is what you will come to meet.

If you sow good, that is what you are going to reap.

You cannot bring saliva from your mouth to build a house.

The place where water is good will gather water-drinkers.  (Naa Mahamadu)

A liar has no town.

Everything changes, but character does not change.

Character is not a stranger.

If you are going to send somebody, send somebody who has sense, not somebody who can walk fast.

The lies you will tell and repair the family, or relationship, they are not bad lies.

The tongue and the teeth sometimes quarrel.They stay together and they quarrel.

If cows are standing together in the bush, a lion won't come near them.

If you see a house, and the house is filled with people, if you go there, it might be that the householder is sitting with his children.

When a Frafra man sees a monkey and tells his dog to chase it, it's all the same.

If you start a work today, then getting to tomorrow you will know what is inside the work.

As for slippery soup, you don't eat it when the soup is far away from you.

In these modern times, if a modern rabbit gets up, it is a modern dog that will catch it.

A messenger is somebody who has patience and sense; it is not somebody who can walk or somebody who is fast.

Dagbamba say you shouldn't give someone a vagina and show him how to sex it.

If you have many yams and there is one bad yam among them, that one yam can spoil all the others.

God should let an old person live long, and anywhere the old person is, there should be many children standing by his waist.

What an elder person has sat down and seen, if a child gets up, he cannot see it.

A chief's housechild does not struggle to see the dance of Ʒɛm.

Something that is coming is not something that is going back.

When you get something that is sweet, you shouldn't eat all of it in one day.


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Dagbani words and other terms