A Drummer's Testament

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Chapter I-8:  The Debt of the Stomach

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Problems of working together as a team; practical problems of poverty and their relationship to commitment to long-term collaborative projects; issues of sharing potential benefits and maintaining continuity of the team



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Contents outline and links by paragraph

Introduction:  three things to pray for

Protecting the friendships in the team from gossip

Questions about the benefits of the work

Friendship and money

Patience and the benefits of one's work

Money and the work of custom

Friendship and debt

The friendship between Alhaji Ibrahim and John

Giving gifts



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Proverbs and Sayings

Health is more important than wealth.

No one will die somewhere and go to another place to live again.

If you are eating, you don't have to eat at one place.

“They have said”:  that breaks towns.

A person should not think everybody will like him.

If a plant doesn't grow, it will not spread its branches.

The mouth will not get something and refuse the stomach.

You are eating in your house, and I am also eating in my house.

People are asking of you.

Money finishes, but knowledge doesn't finish. 

Money finishes, but wisdom does not finish.

Money finishes, but friendship does not finish.

If you die, they don't bury you with money.  It is people who will bury you.

They will not abuse you and cut leaves to put on top.

Money can be life.

Money roams.

Money gets friends and gets enemies.

What you want, that finishes your wealth.

The one you love is the one you spend your wealth on.

If they give you porridge water to drink, you don't have to take your finger to stir it.

The one who speaks the truth doesn't sleep with hunger.

If you are going to begin something, you start it by looking down upon yourself.

Every learning has got its father.

You should never think of releasing something from your hand to fall on the ground.

Friendship brings debt.

The debt that is inside the stomach, you can't pay it.

Friendship or brotherhood does not collect medicine for free.

What an old person has sat down and seen, if a child gets up, the child cannot see it.

Wisdom is more than money.  If you have money and you don't have wisdom, the money will run away and leave you.

If you are two people and you come together, if you cannot do all that your friend wants, then at least you should know what the other fellow does not want.

If a man should grow a tail, his wife will know of it; and if the wife also grows a tail, the husband will know it.

Someone who has patience will hear the voice of a bedbug.

If someone is riding on an elephant, his legs won't touch the ground.

A gift:  it is good if it is something that people can see, and it will stand for the friendship.

The gift has satisfied the house before it came outside.

When you give a gift, you haven't done it for only the one you give; you have done it for yourself.

Someone who gives gifts is someone who has sense.

Don't give a gift and then be watching the person you gave the gift to be thanking you very well.

A gift is more than alms.

A gift extends.

As for any animal that flies, if it doesn't respect its wings, or if it demeans its wings, then children will roast it and eat.

Don't think of releasing something that is in your hands.

It's not a person whose hair is gray who is the elder.

Eldership is in the heart. 

Lies are sweet; truth is like a thorn.


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